Modest Wedding Dress  

A modest wedding dress can be difficult to find if you don’t know where to look. Strapless gowns, that are fitted with low backs are not everyone’s idea of a dream but they are unfortunately, these are the dresses on the front of magazines and filling store fronts. Modest is also not what it used to be- you can find plenty of beautiful gowns that are stylish while making you feel comfortable on one of the most important days of your life.

The Right Cut 

As you set out on your shopping trip for a modest wedding dress, keep in mind A-line gowns or empress waist gowns. These are some of the most forgiving styles as well as being commonly available from designers. Starting your session with a sales person by knowing you want an A-line or empress waist will help the staff start the modest wedding dress selection process. The cut for an A-line is often fitted on top and flows outwards beginning at the waist, loosely the shape of an ‘A’. An empress waist is typically banded just below the bust line, flowing freely and generally not form fitting at all.

The Right Sleeves 

Everywhere you look in a wedding magazine, the gowns are either strapless, halters or tiny thin spaghetti straps. If this just is not your style, you should consider other options for a modest wedding dress, such as cap sleeves, off the shoulder, short sleeves or even long sleeves depending on the time of year for your ceremony. If you fall in love with a strapless gown you can check with a seamstress and see if it can be altered to accommodate an option such as an off the shoulder or cap sleeve. This is much easier to do when revising the construction of a dress than taking sleeves off and creating a strapless gown believe it or not.

The Right Color 

If you are looking for a modest wedding gown, it does not necessarily mean you have to purchase a traditional wedding gown. If you are looking want a modest look, you are likely not interested in flamboyant reds or a daring black silk and lace number, but it does not mean you have to choose a traditional white. Eggshell, ivory or even tea rose pink are options that you may want to consider for a modest wedding dress.

When You Just Cannot Find the Right Anything 

After you have exhausted all the bridal shops and you still came out without a modest wedding dress, you still have some options. A good seamstress can do wonders for a neckline that just is not comfortable for you without an extensive amount of work. For example, a gown that fits too low can have some gathered tulle sewn across the top of the bodice. Consult with a professional seamstress for dress options.

Being comfortable is the most important thing on your wedding day. If you wish to find a modest wedding dress,  you should keep in mind your personal taste can still be elegant and beautiful without being revealing or feeling inappropriate. While you may have to look a little harder than the average bride, the end result will be worth it. 

If you are having a tropical wedding then you may opt for an informal beach wedding dress.