Custody of the children is one of the most contested areas of a divorce. Just because they’re getting a divorce doesn’t mean they no longer love their children. Once we become used to their presence in our everyday lives, it can be difficult living without them. In the old days, children and wives were considered to be property of the husband, but this is no longer the case. Now it is gradually moving to a fairer option which is known as joint custody.
In joint custody, sometimes referred to as time sharing, the child spends time with both parents. This time does not need to be split evenly, and the split is usually geared towards more time with the mother, but it gives visitation rights to each parent.
The couple can decide between themselves to have a joint custody arrangement, or the courts can order one. One parent’s home will usually be designated as the primary residence. In most cases, the judges orders the mother to be the primary parent, but in some cases, it’s the father.
The couple may be able to work out a visitation schedule on their own or a judge can come up with one. This schedule usually has the secondary parent receiving visitation rights every other weekend and rotating holidays. Even and odd-numbered years form the basis for the rotating holidays. In even numbered years, for example, the father may get Thanksgiving with the child. The mother would have the child during odd numbered years for the holiday. For other major holidays, it would be the same situation.
The couple or the courts may also decide to make a 50/50 custody agreement in which the child’s time is shared equally. The most common type of 50/50 custody is when the child spends one week with each parent. If the parent’s homes are close enough to each other, this can be a great solution. The parent would need to ensure that the child attends school and all necessary appointments during their visitation time. The child will need to be provided with food and clothing while staying with the parent.Doc No.azlcssaeh-sdgfhkl
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